....Inspired beyond boundaries

Tag: romance

relationship

Every Relationship have their ups and downs

How would you rate your relationship on a scale-out of 10?

Is there any room for improvement?

If your relationship is like most, then yea, there is room for improvement.

Even if you have experienced a lot of failed relationships in the past or struggling to rekindle the fires of romance in your current relationship, you can learn to stay connected, find fulfillment and enjoy lasting happiness. All romantic relationships go through ups and downs. They all require some level of commitment, respect, trust, loyalty, trust,  honesty, patience,  and a willingness to adapt and change with your partner to make it work.

At some point in our lives, we may believe that love should be like the kind of romance we see portrayed in movies,  television, and novels. Despite the claims of romantic fiction or movies, no one person can meet all your needs. Expecting too much from your partner can put unhealthy pressure on your relationship. If you are expecting to get what you want 100% in a relationship, you are setting yourself up for disappointment. Healthy relationships are built on sacrifice. It takes a lot of work on each person’s part to have a healthy affair.

A great number of relationships often fall apart because of a lack of direct communication. When people stop communicating well, they stop relating well but as long as you are communicating you can work through whatever problems you are facing. Your partner is not a mind reader. It is much healthier to express your needs directly to avoid confusion. Your partner may sense something’s but it might not be what you need. What you needed and wanted some years ago for instance may be very different now. So, instead of letting resentment, misunderstanding, bitterness, or anger grow when your partner continually gets it wrong, develop the habit of telling them exactly what you need.

Conflict is inevitable in any relationship. Don’t start arguments over things that cannot be changed. Rather than looking to past conflicts or grudges and assigning blame, focus on what you can do to solve the problem. If you can’t agree, agree to disagree. It takes two people to keep an argument going. If a conflict is going nowhere, you can choose to disengage and move on. Always remember that you are arguing with the person you love.

You will not always be on the same page. Change is inevitable in life and it will happen in your relationship whether you go with it or not. Making a positive change does not need to be a complicated process. It just needs to be a consistent process where you progressively develop new habits of mind through repeated exposure and implementation.

Learn to always adapt to the positive change that is always taking place in your love affair. It will allow you to grow together through both the good times and bad. Like a garden, the more you tend to your relationship, the more it will grow…

love

Love Facts unveiled

Love ranks among the most often discussed subject both online and offline. A simple search on the word “Love” will bring up 14 billion search results. Funny enough, there is no single definition of this ancient subject. It means different things to different persons. There are some amazing facts I’ll be sharing on this beautiful subject 

You got to Let go 

A rather sad thing about life is when you meet someone who means the world to you, only to discover at the end that it wasn’t meant to be. Like a dream, you got to wake up and let go. 

Love hurts 

It hurts to have a deep affection for someone and not to be loved in return. What is even more painful is to love someone and never have the courage or boldness to let the person know how you feel inside. 

Love is beyond the physical 

True love still exists and can be found even in the most common places. Deep affection is when you take away the feelings, the romance, the sex, and the passion away from the relationship, and you still discover you care for that person. 

Stop looking at the closed door 

There is always the possibility of heartbreaks when it comes to being fond of someone. However, when the door of affection slam closes, another opens, but oftentimes, we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us. 

Don’t expect Love in return 

It is always natural to expect people to love you back after giving them all you got. Unfortunately, it may not work out the way you planned. Just wait for it to grow in the heart. But if it doesn’t, be content it grew in yours. 

Love sometimes comes from strange places

There are things you’ll wish to hear from the person you truly care about. Unfortunately, you may not hear these things. But don’t be too deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from the heart! Love can be found in the most unlikely places. Amid unimaginable pains, we can always find happiness. Things may not always go the way we planned, but our kind spirits will surely experience beautiful moments.

Never say goodbye to the one you truly love 

The institution of marriage is not a tea party. It comes with great commitments and sacrifices. Never say goodbye if you still want to try. Don’t give up if you feel you can still go on. Why say you don’t care about a person anymore if you can’t go a day without thinking about the person. 

Love comes to the courageous 

In life like in relationships, there are ups and downs. There are moments of extreme pain and also beautiful moments filled with all we ever desired in life. Love comes to those who still hope, although they’ve been disappointed by past relationships. Those who still believe, though they’ve been betrayed by those who they once cherished. Some have been badly hurt, but like wounded soldiers, they still trudge on. Love always comes to those who have the courage and faith to build trust again! 

Don’t ever go for Looks

“The hearts expressions can never be found in the face”. Looks can be so secretive, so never you go for looks. Lots of people go for wealth, unfortunately, wealth can grow wings and fly away. Choose to go for someone who makes you smile always, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seems bright. 

Powered by WordPress & Theme by Anders Norén