Fear is a Killer of destiny

Fear is a Killer of destiny

Fear is one of the most often used words around. It is often referred to as a phobia. There are different types of phobia. Some individuals are scared of heights. Some are scared of driving. Others are scared of darkness. These things look real to some individuals and keep them from achieving their dreams in life. One of the most painful types of phobia is the fear of failure. This is called atychiphobia.

Letting go of fear

Unless you let go of the past failure and you choose to move forward, meaningful progress can never be achieved. Face your greatest phobia headlong and stop allowing it to stop you from achieving your dreams in life. The past is gone, and you must let go of the past. Failure is part of the process, so stop been scared of failing. People who achieved success in life went through the same path. They fell and they got up and moved on. They never allowed fear to hold them in one spot.

Build up self-confidence

Start every new day with a smile. The dawn of a new day is an opportunity for you to start afresh. Put yesterday’s pains and regret behind you and enjoy every moment life brings across your path. Champions do go through pains. They go through heartaches too, but they smile through the pain and build up their self-confidence daily. How do they achieve that? Setting little goals and achieving these little goals one day at a time.

Mix up with the right crowd

Life is beautiful when we go along with the right crowd. When we come in contact with the right friends who will spur us towards our destiny and help us break the barrier of fear. Certain individuals will tell you the reasons why you can’t succeed. Cut off any contact with people that stimulate fear in you. Mix-up with the right people. Vibe with positive energy and start working your way towards the right path.

The process takes time

The process of banishing fear takes time. It doesn’t happen overnight. So, never get discouraged when you still get some flashbacks once in a while. Be patient all through and never allow memories of the past failure to dwell too long in your subconscious. Every good thing in life requires time and patience to become a reality. The most important thing is you doing something each day to accomplish the process. Daily, weekly and monthly goals are been written and carried out.

Life only reward the brave

Achieving your destiny even amid challenges is an amazing feeling that can’t be fully described. When Usain Bolt started his career, there was the general belief that no human can break the then 100 meters record held by Tyson Gay of the United States of America. Fortunately for Usain Bolt, he never allowed fear to determine his choices. He went ahead and break the 100 meters world records on the 16th of August 2009 in Berlin Germany at a time of 9.58 sec. Life does not reward the fearful. Life only rewards the brave and courageous.

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